Guiding you to a flourishing, purposeful & deeply connected life

  • Empower

    Leadership—whether in ministry or the professional world—comes with unique pressures and responsibilities that can weigh heavily on your heart and mind. Whether you’re facing burnout, difficult decisions, or the challenges of your team and congregation, I’m here to walk alongside you. Together, we’ll develop tailored strategies to strengthen your leadership skills, nurture your spiritual resilience, and clarify your vision. You don’t have to carry the weight alone—let’s equip you to lead with courage, wisdom, and grace so your work thrives and impacts lives deeply.

  • Flourish

    Are you feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, or stuck in a cycle of burnout? Through personalized coaching or debriefing sessions, I help you gain clarity, release stress, heal and reconnect with your true joy. Together, we’ll explore practical strategies tailored to your unique challenges that nourish your mind, body, and spirit. My goal is to equip you with tools and insights that empower you to move beyond survival and step confidently into a balanced, energized, and fulfilling life. Experience the transformation that focused coaching and reflective debriefing can bring—your path to thriving starts here.

  • Sacred

    Grounded in trust, presence, and Christian spiritual connection, I believe true transformation happens when we open ourselves fully—to God, to others, and to our deepest selves. Through spiritual direction, coaching and consulting tools, and embodiment practices, I walk alongside you to gently dismantle the barriers of self-doubt, crisis and limiting beliefs. Together, we create a space where your authentic voice can be heard, healing happens and your life can align with your highest calling. This journey invites you to live and lead with clarity, courage, and grace whatever sphere you find yourself.

Intensive Debrief

Debriefing is a guided experience lasting 2 to 5 days, designed for those navigating transition, grief, crisis, or injustice at various levels. Through this process, you’ll gain perspective on your circumstances, experience healing, forgiveness, and freedom, and take steps toward resilience. By the end of the sessions, you’ll leave renewed and equipped to move forward with clarity and strength.

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Hilary Horn is a certified coach that has helped hundreds live a deeply authentic, connected, and flourishing life. Focusing on debrief weeks, individual coaching, workshops and sabbatical coaching. She helps see people walk in healing and health.

Hi, I’m Hilary.

With over 15 plus years of experience in ministry across more than 31 countries, I’ve had the deep privilege of walking alongside missionaries, pastors, and ministry leaders through the beauty and brokenness of Kingdom work. My background in global missions, pastoral care, and church leadership has given me a front-row seat to the unique challenges that come with serving in cross-cultural and high-demand spiritual environments.

I know what it’s like to carry the weight of calling while navigating grief, burnout, spiritual abuse, cultural stress, transitions, and faith questions. Whether you’re returning from the field, shifting ministry roles, or wrestling with wounds from toxic church systems, I offer a safe, Christ-centered space for you to process your story with honesty and hope.

My heart is to see leaders restored and the Church made whole. I help clients move toward healing, clarity, and renewed connection with God and self—mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically. Together, we’ll explore your experiences, uncover truth, and equip you with practical tools for long-term growth and resilience.

You don’t have to walk this road alone. There is grace, healing, and purpose waiting on the other side.

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Debriefing is a guided 5 day rest where many people come having gone through a lot of transition, grief, crisis, and injustice at varying levels. Best for ministry leaders, missionaries, nurses, christian debrief, pastors, trauma experience. Seattle

Coaching for Women Leaders

Overcoming things like vocational obstacles, primal wounding, trauma, and entering into what God has created you to be starts with creating a safe space where individuals feel heard and supported while identifying the root cause of issues. Together we will create practical strategies to help build confidence, resilience and growth. Learn to face challenges with courage, clarity and self-compassion.

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Premarital Counseling

Premarital counseling is a vital step for couples preparing to build a lifelong partnership. It offers a structured environment to explore foundational aspects of a relationship, such as communication, conflict resolution, finances, and shared values. By addressing potential challenges before they arise, couples gain tools to navigate them effectively. Premarital counseling provides a safe space to discuss sensitive topics that may otherwise be overlooked, helping to mitigate misunderstandings later.

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What People Are Saying

  • TM, Working Mom

    Every time I've walked away from a session, I've gained new skills and tried things I hadn't before, boosting my confidence significantly. My life has held a lot stress, this experience has made me more aware of maintaining a sense of calm during this season. I appreciate Hilary who has also celebrated with me intentionally.

  • Sarah, Missionary

    “Missions takes a toll. I was burned out and trying to stay afloat in my family life. Coaching with Hilary really helped me process more ways to have self care, meet goals and find a healthier and balanced life. She also helped process some traumas from this past year that kept me stuck. Honestly, I think it saved my marriage and ministry!

  • Lainey S.

    Hilary is great. I highly recommend working with her. She is sharp and a great listener. I am grateful for the resources she has led me too. She has a natural gift for coaching.

  • AS, School Counselor

    When I first started I had no clue what I was getting into. I was anxious and you were so patient with my heart and my story. I have always felt safe and secure and most importantly, seen. You challenged ways of thinking and deep sorrow in such powerful ways. Even more, you did it with gentleness. Thank you so much for everything you have done and I will never take it for granted!

  • Mikalai, CFO

    “Hilary has been my coach for several months now and we have made very good progress towards my goals. She is very professional and committed, it really feels like team work even though we are only working on my goals. Her approach is also full of empathy, which helped us create trust early on. I can certainly recommend working with Hilary to everyone who is interested in setting up and achieving their goals or someone who needs help in transition or change!”

  • KM, Church Leader

    Experiencing coaching with someone who understands ministry and is living a similar life to mine was really important. I felt comfortable sharing things with Hilary that I might not have shared with a different coach.“

  • Lily, Business Owner

    Coaching with Hilary has definitely been one of the best decisions I made for this season of my life. It is not just self-care, I will say it is beyond that. My life and my work wasn't in a bad place when I started coaching. I wanted to give this a try because I hoped to grow in the blind spots of my life, and the areas that could be more healthier and better. I want to become a better parent. I want what I am doing to go to the next level with life coaching with Hilary. Knowing that Hilary has a wide range of life experience, as a client, I felt very safe and understood. She is very knowledgeable.

  • Hilary is not only experienced as a professional coach, but also her understanding of unique individuals and discerning what is the right question to ask and lead our conversations. I feel so motivated after each session of coaching by Hilary. All the practical and immediate application after the sessions during the week have been amazing. I got to work on these and I have seen progress in all the areas I want to grow into and see the change in my life and my business as well. It is not just talk - but a very tangible result!

    I will definitely recommend Hilary to be your life coach. Whatever the stage of life you are at, you need it! Don't wait until life catches you, start before it comes! It is a life changing experience.

  • PK, Working Mom

    When I started having sessions with Hilary, I saw so much progress! She asks very powerful questions and helped move me forward. She has such a peaceful and calm presence that allows you to freely open up without judgement. I have been learning a lot about myself and seen change in my life in such a small amount of time. I look forward to continuing our time together and to see more!”

  • JD, Mother

    “I’ve been to several therapists this past year. But when I started having sessions with Hilary, I saw so much more progress! She asks very powerful questions and helped move me forward. She has such a peaceful and calm presence that allows you to freely open up without judgement. I have been learning a lot about myself and seen change in my life in such a small amount of time! I look forward to continuing our time together and to see more!”

  • DC, Nurse

    There really aren’t enough words to express the depths of gratitude I feel for the impact you’ve had on me. Thank you for all you have poured into us!

  • JR, Ministry Leader

    What a gift and treasure you have been and are. Thank you for challenging, championing and encouraging me. You really listened and have wisdom beyond your years and it’s so evident in the gifts you bring because of how impactful they are.

Are you ready for lasting change?

We are all on a journey and coaching isn’t for the faint of heart. It takes honesty, grit, commitment and vulnerability to move into the life we want. That’s why having someone safe to help you navigate this process is so impactful and important.

I am here to cheer you on and help guide you in discovery as you experience a beautiful, flourishing and more connected life. If you are ready to say yes to that change, book an intro coaching session today.